Masturbation is not a practice reserved only for men. Long considered taboo, a woman can also freely masturbate. Masturbation is a way of controlling your sexuality. To spice up married life, you can even masturbate in front of him. This will take the excitement and sexual pleasure to another level. Masturbating in front of him should not be done without knowing the rules to follow in order to be totally satisfied with each other. So how can you successfully masturbate in front of your partner and what are the things to avoid?
Always get in the mood
In a society where male sex has always been valued, masturbating when you are a woman has been a repression. Nowadays, this repression tends to disappear little by little, because women can also have the right to everything. Many people see masturbation as something that evokes dirtiness, whereas it is another way of expressing sexual pleasure. For a successful masturbation session in front of her partner, you need to get in the mood. Do not hesitate to use methods such as playing music or choosing a soft light. You can also use accessories such as dildos or vibrators depending on your preferences to reach orgasm easily.
Getting excited with your partner
The secret to successful sexual pleasure is to be open-minded. If you are new to this practice, i.e. if it is your first time to masturbate and in front of your partner, do not hesitate to communicate. Talk to your partner about what makes you happy and take it as a kind of game. It will be easier to masturbate when you are aroused. Before touching your private parts, do some foreplay, such as kissing and stroking your partner. When you are sufficiently aroused, you can start to masturbate slowly at your own pace. Your partner will only be satisfied by watching you do this.
Choose the position you feel comfortable with
Don't hesitate to ask your partner beforehand if he or she will enjoy a particular position when you do it. For example, you can ask them to get behind you and stick their genitals between your thighs to get more excited, to kiss your neck or other practices you particularly prefer. One last piece of advice: do what you like when you masturbate in front of him and avoid doing simulations.